Grieving
This section looks at ways that people can support one another through the grieving process. It gives particular attention to the experience of grieving in the context of a community of ‘differently-abled’ individuals.
Documents
 |  | This article by Jane Powell comes out of the experience of grieving in the context of a community of “differently-abled” individuals. It includes 7 steps to prepare for the loss of a loved one, what is helpful at the time of death, and supporting one another after death. |
 | | The following power point accompanies the article “Grieving in the Context of a Community of Differently-abled People” and contains some of the experience and wisdom gained as people with disabilities and « assistants » live and share life together in L’Arche. |
Resources and Links
Grief
Funeral Cooperatives Of Quebec (La Gentiane) (French)
- Support for persons who are mourning
- Tools for support in bereavement
- Brochures on shock, denial, disorganization, re-appropriation of life, healing and transformation.
- Texts, poems, book suggestions
Local Memorial Societies and Funeral Cooperatives
- Often have good resources (brochures and booklets) on grieving
Books
Books Beyond Words (any language)
Series of very well- illustrated pictorial books that can be used for any language:
- “When Dad Died” deals with death, grief, burial. “When Mom Died” deals with death, grief and cremation. “When Somebody Dies” deals with grief and exploring emotions.
www.worthpublishing.com :
Loss and Learning Disability (Noelle Blackman) ISBN 1-903269-02-4 (English)
- addresses how people with developmental disabilities are affected by bereavement, strategies to prevent grief complications
La Peine des Sans Voix: L’accompagnement des Déficients Intellectuelles en Deuil (Marielle Robitaille) ISBN 9782922762372 Editions Académie Impact
- Introduction by Jean Vanier
- recognizing symptoms of unresolved grief, strategies of adapted accompaniment, developing made to measure support tools for people with an intellectual disability
Aimer, Perdre et Grandir (Jean Monbourquette) ISBN 9782895079408 Editions Bayard
- guide for reflection and personal growth activities following an emotional loss
- poetry and inspirational texts
“A Letter of Consolation” (Henri Nouwen) ISBN 0060663148
- moving account of Henri Nouwen’s grief over the loss of his mother
Our Greatest Gift: A Meditation on Dying and Caring (Henri Nouwen) ISBN 978-0-06-180026-9
- a personal look at aging, loss, grief and fear
Helping Adults with Mental Retardation Grieve a Death Loss (Charlene Luchterhand and Nancy Murphy) ISBN-10:1560327685
- In spite of its dated language the book offers much practical information for supporting people with disabilities who are grieving
“On Grief and Grieving: Finding the meaning of Grief Through the Five Stages of Loss
(Elisabeth Kubler-Ross and David Kessler) ISBN 0743266293
« Don’t be afraid to grieve your losses.
They are the signposts of our lives, after which we are never the same.
Loss can so often be the first step towards something better-either around us or within us”.
Joan Chittister, Gospel Days
